The human voice is a tool we all play. It is the most powerful voice in the world, and the only one that can start a war or say "I love you". However, many people have experienced that every time they speak, they are not happy. Others don't listen to them, what is the reason for that? How can we say to have the power to make a difference in the world?
The Seven Sins of Speaking
To make our speech interesting and powerful, we should avoid some common habits, which I have compiled as the "Seven Sins of Speech":
- Gossip: Speak negatively about other people when he is absent. Gossiping is not a good habit, and we know that people who gossip tend to gossip about us soon.
- Judgement: Talking to people who judge us makes it difficult to listen because we feel judged all the time.
- Negatives: People with negative thoughts make it difficult to listen. We need positive and constructive communication.
- Complaint: Complaining is a national art in the UK, but it's actually spreading suffering.
- Justification: People who are not responsible for their own actions make it difficult to listen.
- Exaggeration: Exaggeration devalues our language, and it can turn into a lie.
- Persistence: Confusion between facts and opinions makes communication unclear.
Four Principles of Powerful Speaking
We can improve our speech by being based on four principles, which can use the word "hail" as a mnemonic note:
- H – Honesty: Speak frankly and clearly.
- A – Authenticity: self-confident
- I – Integrity: Follow your word
- L - Love: Have good intentions towards others.
Speech Tools
In addition to the content we are talking about. The way you speak is also important. Our voice is a powerful tool, and we can use them to improve our speech:
1. Register
Adjusting the volume can help us communicate better. Deep voices are often seen as more powerful.
2. Sound (Timbre)
A warm and soft sound will make the listener feel good. Therefore, practice our voice with voice exercises.
3. Prosody
The use of voice transitions helps to liven up communication. Don't say every sentence with one voice.
4. Pace
Speaking fast or slow can create different emotions in communication.
5. Silence
Silence can be powerful. If we use it properly,
Sound warm-up
Before we speak the essentials, we should warm our voices to be ready by following these steps:
- Stretch your arms up and take a deep breath, then let out an "ahhh" sound.
- Make the "Ba" sound several times.
- Make a "brrrr" sound to stimulate the lips.
- Make a big "la" sound.
- Make an "R" sound to stimulate the tongue.
- Make a "weeeaawww" sound, which starts at the high and then goes down.
summarize
We want our speech to be dynamic and engaging in a world full of noise and inappropriate environments. If we can speak powerfully where people listen attentively, we will be able to speak with power. We can create a world full of understanding and beauty.
